2021.12.06 02:52 spicedvanilla34 how to be a better gf and make sure long distance works out
I’m 23F and have been with my 24M boyfriend for a little over a year. We recently started doing long distance, about 3-4 hours away from each other. It’s been hard to say the least.
We love each other deeply and have overcome a lot to be with each other. For me, this is my first ever relationship. While our love is strong, communication got a little rocky before his move and since he’s gotten settled.
I have been becoming increasingly more emotional, now that the exciting of his move has winded down. My feelings get hurt easier and I’m having a hard time staying optimistic even though we both have vowed to make it work. He reassures me and we have plans to see each other once a month.
I show my love through action, spending quality time and physical affection. I also have a tendency to overthink. He shows his affection through words, physical affection and quality time. My biggest struggle in our relationship has been expressing myself emotionally and being vulnerable when I feel down, instead of shutting down. So lately, in an effort to be more open, I have been expressing my sadness of the distance and fear about the future. He has a tendency to be more optimistic, so while he acknowledges how I feel, he brushes past the things I say and essentially says ‘it’ll work out, don’t be negative.’ He has expressed he feels like I can be a little too in my feels about it, essentially.
So— how do I allow myself to feel the sadness but also embrace the distance? How can I be more supportive, while also being reminded of the distance and how long we have to do this for? How can I ensure we work out?
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2021.12.06 02:52 thunder_bear_ I wanted to drink , and I convinced myslef why its okay. But I still didnt drink. Haveing a " long lasting crave"
Has anyone every had "long cravings" that seem to last over several days. I have convinced myself its okay to drink today because I am in the military and its tradition.( But I still didnt drink). I convinced myself that this late fall weather and travel out of town would be acceptable to drink, as long as I dont keep drinking when I return home( But I still didnt drink) .
Ive had a gnawing craving to drink over the past several days, and I convinced myself why it would be acceptable to do so, but I still didnt drink. One of these days I just selpt more, and skipped dinner. The next day I just ate what I wanted as a reward/replacement.
I have not had a drink since October. Ive been here before, the long lasting craves seem real to me, and have caused me to give in before. Does anyone else have these?
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2021.12.06 02:52 Meiliholic Natsuki Subaru WOTD #9 is: Cum! I'm so fucking funny.
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2021.12.06 02:52 emaginutiv Arguments aside, there is one thing we can all agree on after tonight’s game…
2021.12.06 02:52 DonieBalonie Finding a good therapist
I am an INTP and have tried a few therapists in the past but always felt really awkward and never connected with them. Not to sound conceited, but I feel like I'm not an oridinary person, and all the therapists I tried seemed to just appeal to the average person. I never really opened up to them because they didn't seem to do much to make me feel at ease. Like every time I went, it was basically just small talk, which I can't stand. Other INTPs, what has your experience been with therapy? Any tips to find a good therapist that I can connect with?
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2021.12.06 02:52 funjeye1 Any Imperial Knight patreons like Gearguts?
2021.12.06 02:52 Wusyname I don’t miss her but I miss the support
I decided to breakup with my girlfriend to get rid of the toxic relationship and behavior she was developing, it was for the better. Even tho I wasn’t happy and I am not suffering (like I dropped weight off my shoulder) I don’t miss her but I miss the support of a woman in my life (I’m a man) feminine support hits different and normal girl-friends won’t do it for me, I don’t want another relationship for now but I miss that feeling in my life. I don’t think I need any advice since I think time will tell but I just wanted to talk about it
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2021.12.06 02:52 RevolutionaryVision I'm ready to quit inflicting damage upon myself
Was going to quit for new years but I'm gonna go for it today. I'm off thc about 2 months now and I'm ready to get off the vape now. I hate being so involved with any substance. It just feels so shitty knowing I'm doing something that harms my healthbar. Which we all have a whole 1 of. I've smoked cigarettes, cigars.. I've vaped mods, popped zyn pouches ever since I was 18 nicotine was a daily routine. All day. Every day. I'm tired of being a slave to this crap. I find it way too nice- nicotine and coffee and beer, even just having smoke in my mouth. Ugh. I don't want to be 40 yrs down the line and suffering. It needs to stop, now. I guess I'm just making this post for accountability purposes, it's been very encouraging reading thru this subreddit.
I recognize that feeling the need to draw smoke and alter my mindstate is partly physiological and partly stems from a need to control. I know this because whenever I get stressed I feel The urge even stronger. So, I'm setting self in a direction to establish control in a healthy manner. Diet and exercise, hydration habits etc. If you have any tips or any other ways to feel in control of your life when things become stressful please drop them below! I wish everyone the best and happiest lungs.
Turning the page!
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2021.12.06 02:52 throwaway12854206 Please help, I don't know what to do with myself.
Hi guys, sorry the title doesn't sound too great and seems urgent but it's not I just need a hug.
Here's the backstory:
So, this guy I've just I guess been 'talking to' (I'll call him Thomas) and I had a thing for a bit. We started having a thing on February. But it was just over Snapchat, and it wasn't that serious. Anyway, he had this sickness and the meds he took made him tired so he slept most of the time, so we didn't talk too much. Anyway, in June-July we had started talking again, but it was very often. We had talked a lot on Xbox together and even 1# best friends on Snapchat. Btw, during all this, I had given him a lot of money and things on Xbox (about 100 altogether).
Just before my birthday (23 July), we had stopped talking as much. I started getting really close to my other guy friend (I'll call him Alex). I invited Alex over (on August the 1st) and we had actually started getting intimate together, which we weren't before. We started kissing and all that. Anyway, at the end of it, he decided to ask me out and I said yes.
The first 2 months of dating Alex, it was great. We had bonded a lot and it was great (this is out of the ordinary for me I'm pretty unstable in relationships). Anyway, Thomas came back into my life around November and we had started talking again, as friends. We had talked a lot and bonded even more than the first time we started talking. Eventually, it got to more than friends so I broke up with Alex. Alex and I had just become friends with benefits after going on a break for a bit.
After a week of my break-up with Alex, I had ditched 1 or 2 classes to hang out with Thomas. On the first day we had just made out and on the second we had gone quite far physically. But the thing was when I got back my friends would pester me for where I was. I couldn't just tell them I can't say (that's a story for later) so I just told them. I told Thomas and he seemed to be fine with it at first. A week later, he broke things off (our 'thing') and started telling people that it didn't happen. He always brags about using me for money and my body, but BRO I COULDV'E JUST GIVEN HIM MONEY BECAUSE I WANTED TO AND I LIKED MAKING PEOPLE HAPPY NOT BECAUSE I LIKED HIM 😭😭😭
We stopped talking for a bit again but today he messaged me and he was just asking for money again. He started annoying me so I just blocked him.
I feel kind of shit now. But I never let myself get emotionally attached to Thomas. I'm just angry I guess but I don't know what to do with myself or this situation.
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2021.12.06 02:52 plushgamR FUCK YOU IM TESTING SOMETHING
2021.12.06 02:52 NightLoom Usopp the 3rd commander of straw hats(just wishfull thinking )
So in new sbs it was said that yassop is 3rd commander of red hat pirates right after ben beckman and lucky roo
it would be so cool FOR ME if it was the same for straw hats Luffy beign the captain and then Zoro,sanji and usopp beign the 1st,2nd and 3rd commanders
that walk to arlong park with those 4 was so cool
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2021.12.06 02:52 ScientistChan shyness
So I started talking to a therapist about my dysphoria but everytime she brings it up I get so shy trying to tell her I want a female body, a female face, and voice. Any tips for bringing this topic up to new people? I'm 21 amab and I'm stll questioning myself. Do I really want to be a girl? I don't really know the answer because everytime I bring it up i get so shy i could die. Any advice?
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2021.12.06 02:52 kushychris0 Petrochem 🤤🤤 gg4 x moonbow 75. Pungent dank Z that coats the mouth
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2021.12.06 02:52 KujatatheFish An alternative to "the button" to help anyone questioning if they're trans
When I was questioning my gender the final nail in the coffin that really convinced me that I am a woman is I pictured myself as an old woman and I really didn't like what I envisioned, right after I imagined being an old man and it was just pure nightmare fuel. If you picture what you'd look like when you're 70+ without ever going through HRT and it scares the ever living shit out of you, like it did me, you're probably trans
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2021.12.06 02:52 veneim Question about occasional use of beta blockers and hair loss side effect
Hi, I'm potentially going to start taking a beta blocker soon (I think my doctor may prescribe Propranolol) — but I'm a little worried about the hair loss side effect. I'm wondering if there is any consensus or research on when or how this might occur?
I ask because I would only take beta blockers occasionally, like when I have to speak during meetings or things of that nature (maybe like once every two weeks, maybe twice).
Would the hair loss side effect still be of concern with that type of usage, as opposed to taking it every day?
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2021.12.06 02:52 one_zay I got the girl!
I've been on tinder for maybe a year and never got past 2 weeks of conversation with anyone. But I matched with this girl in October and effortlessly passed that landmark period. We've talked for almost 2 months and got to know each other and thinks were going pretty well. We recently went on date and I asked her to be mine and she agreed! After 2 years single I'm finally back in it and I'm so happy. Just thought I'd share :)
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2021.12.06 02:52 JetPackGriffin Bracelet of Ethereum2.0
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2021.12.06 02:52 VideoToastCrunch Which Criterion releases have the best special features for someone interested in editing?
2021.12.06 02:52 Dumbass_bird I'm on a galaxy j7 crown and the play store say the game is not available is there any good apk or something I can use and will I be able use my old account?
2021.12.06 02:52 JAGGERjawJ Batman vs demo knight
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2021.12.06 02:52 Initial-Pain627 please help
this literally just happened and is currently still happening i dont want to call the police or even know if i should im 15 in high school and i asked a girl i like if she would like to starbucks with me tommorow she said something to her friend who happens to be dating one of my friends and his girlfriend asked if i liked the girl i just asked out if i and my friend is now thinking im hitting on his girlfriend which im obviously not and he started saying "stop flirting with my girl" and stuff like that and after me explaining it said "i could fr stab someone rn" and that is word for word and to me seems like he is threating me or his girlfriend and i am freaking the fuck out i dont know what to do so please someone give me some advice what i should do
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2021.12.06 02:52 SaucyIV This Old Highschool Video Of Drake is Hilarious